Blog — Romantic Relationships
Posted on October 23, 2012 in
Worry Wise
Dating is like job interviewing for love. No it's not at all like that, but that's how anxiety might tell the story. So much anticipation, so many unknowns, so many what if's. It's not just this date that feels like it's on the line, it feels like our very ability to be loved is what's at stake. In this Q and A I did with eHarmony.com, you'll find many ideas for preventing anxiety on a date by leaving the worry at home.
Read the full interview and share with anyone who might benefit from reading it, too!
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Posted on February 13, 2014 in
Worry Wise

It's almost Valentine's Day, and while we scramble to find the perfect gift, maybe we've already got it! Researchers at University of California Berkeley have found the secret to love and connection can be revealed in the words we use in our relationships. What's the word that packs the most power? The one that is woven through the conversations of happy couples? It's the word "we." Check out why. And happy Valentine's day dear readers!
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Posted on February 14, 2016 in
Worry Wise
Happy Valentine's Day! Yes, we are all a bit weary of the hype, but when it comes down to it, what a great opportunity to pause and appreciate the wonder of love in your life! For parents it can be challenging to stay connected when kids are in the mix, but there is one very important way you can do this. Today and every day. Check it out!
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Posted on April 17, 2018 in
Worry Wise
Happy spring! While we are in the midst of cleaning up our closets, our cars, our desks (well, some of us anyway, but that's another story-- please see previous blogpost about who isn't doing that)-- let's not forget about the care and attention of our relationships with our significant others! Here are some ideas for sprucing up and clearing away the clutter with those most important people in our lives.
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Posted on May 18, 2018 in
Worry Wise
Are we excited about the royal wedding? How can we not be? Prince Harry and Meghan Markle are easily a fairytale couple, but when you listen to their story you can’t help but be struck by the genuineness of their affection for each other. Remarkably, they didn't know anything about each other and had to get to know each other themselves—wow, kind of like the rest of us! How did Prince Harry propose? Not at the Eiffel tower, or on some exotic exclusive island—but grounded, at home, in the kitchen, while trying to roast a chicken. How lovely is that? They know they need to keep choosing to focus their energy on nurturing their relationship and that is how they, and all of us, make meant to be happen each day. If you are getting jitters anticipating your own wedding coming up—here is a blogpost to help calm your nerves and warm your cold feet. Best wishes to all the happy couples. Here's to love!
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Posted on May 18, 2018 in
Worry Wise
Are we excited about the royal wedding? How can we not be? Prince Harry and Meghan Markle are easily a fairytale couple, but when you listen to their story you can’t help but be struck by the genuineness of their affection for each other. Remarkably, they didn't know anything about each other and had to get to know each other themselves—wow, kind of like the rest of us! How did Prince Harry propose? Not at the Eiffel tower, or on some exotic exclusive island—but grounded, at home, in the kitchen, while trying to roast a chicken. How lovely is that? They know they need to keep choosing to focus their energy on nurturing their relationship and that is how they, and all of us, make meant to be happen each day. If you are getting jitters anticipating your own wedding coming up—here is a blogpost to help calm your nerves and warm your cold feet. Best wishes to all the happy couples. Here's to love!
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Posted on February 14, 2019 in
Worry Wise
It's Valentine's Day and as much as I love flowers and candy (make that cupcakes, please) I also like writing about the wonders and challenges of love-- and that's what this post is all about. Written with my husband and book illustrator, Phillip Stern, we explore how poignant misunderstandings lead to greater connection. Do you know the feeling? Love is work and it is worth it! Happy Valentine's Day, all!
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