Blog — Homesickness

Heading to College? It's OK to be Homesick

Homesick

Close to twenty million students will head off to college this year, about a quarter of those for the very first time. Along with their hopes, dreams, boxes of microwave popcorn, laptop and cozy comforter, they will bring along their fears, and that's normal. Homesickness isn't exactly about missing home, it's about missing what's familiar. Given a little bit of time, college will become familiar and will feel like home. Here are many ideas to help that transition along: first an article I wrote about strategies for managing homesickness, and then a few links on the subject. The bottom line with any transition: trust you'll adjust. You always do. Here's to a great school year for all!

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Handling College Homesickness

Homesickness MilkosFor families with kids starting college this month, mixed in with the excitement, there is likely a healthy dose of anxiety and homesickness. Wait, homesickness is healthy? Yes, it's a normal process as kids transition from the nest they are leaving to the nest they are creating in their new life. Here are some ideas for helping your student and yourself through these next few weeks of the matched sets of happy texts and tough texts, excited phone calls and free flowing tears, until they have settled in and everyone exhales and marvels as this wondrous stage of life takes shape.

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