Blog — Avoidance

Overcoming Procrastination (Now)

procrastinationI love writing in my local coffee shop, it is somehow my anti-procrastination strategy. I get away from all the distractions I have at home like the laundry and dishes and sorting through my mail, and have some focused work time. The funny thing is, lots of people of busily working on their laptops at the coffee shop, but maybe no surprise, when I walk by I see a good array of delay tactics: people playing solitaire or looking at facebook. Why do we procrastinate when it makes us so miserable? And more importantly, what can we do to get back to work?

Watch this interview I did with Dr. Jennifer Baumgartner on "A Better You," and read this related blog post, Overcoming Procrastination: 7 Strategies to Get the Job Done ...Today.

 

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The Cicadas are Coming! Interview with Laurie Tarkan, New York Times

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For the cicadas, it's the summer of love, for those with bug phobia, not so much-- it's more like the summer of dread, fear, disgust and even canceling all outdoor plans and locking the doors and windows up tight. As with any fear, the more we avoid, our imagination takes over and the worse the fear gets.

How do we take charge of our fears? By getting accurate information and controlling what we can: we can't control the bugs, but we can control our reaction to the bugs. Are they disgusting awful creatures? Or just one more part of nature (albeit a creepy crawly part)? See the difference? I had the pleasure of talking to New York Time's writer, Laurie Tarkan about how to manage entomophobia (the technical term). Click here to read this great piece.

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